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Lost, in limbo: many state care leavers still carry the scars

15 Jul, 2008 12:30 PM
AT 71, Wreford Cleeve, left, still struggles to deal with the fact he grew up alone, away from his family at the Box Hill Boys Home.

From the age of two, the was raised by The Salvation Army alongside hundreds of state wards.

While the Bayswater North resident says his life since has been very positive, he described himself as an exception.

"Some were not as lucky - so many experienced years of pain from physical and mental abuse.''

Centre for Excellence in Child and Family Welfare chief executive officer Coleen Clare said care leavers often struggled to adapt to adulthood once they left the homes.

She said they often lacked emotional and physical skills.

"The critical stages of a child's life where they learn to trust and learn to be autonomous doesn't happen, so these children lack skills others have.

Melbourne-based agency VANISH provides services, including access to counselling and support groups, for 461 care leavers. Between March last year and March 2008, the agency assisted members with support and information on 5563 occasions.

Senior care leaver worker Caroline, a former care leaver herself, said the State Government funded long-term counselling for care leavers, but the issue needed to be "taken seriously''.

"It's no good us giving counselling if there is no food in their bellies, no roof over their head.

"The barriers have to be addressed.''

The next stage was to educate the community on the issue. People generally had "no understanding at all'' because the "forgotten Australians'' had only recently started to assert themselves.

"We didn't talk about it. We did everything to hide it. We were ashamed so we didn't talk about it,'' Caroline said.

"It's been a struggle since the day they were born.''

A spokesman for The Salvation Army, which owned the now-closed Box Hill Boys Home, said claims, enquiries and requests had been received from care leavers.

"We encourage those affected to come forward directly to us.''

In 2006, The Salvation Army made a public apology that it was deeply regretful of incidents of abuse perpetrated by its staff on children in its care from the 1940s to the '70s.

The same year, the State Government also apologised to all Victorian children who suffered abuse or neglect in institutional care.

Department of Human Services spokesman Cam Ward said the State Government examined all the Senate inquiry recommendations relating to its jurisdiction. Government responses included $7.1 million for a former care leaver service from early 2009 and $30,000 towards a memorial for care leavers.

Those wanting help can contact VANISH on 9328 8611 or 1800 334 043.

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Mr Wreford cleeve your not alone hear there are 499.000 of us out there yes some were lucky to gone ahead sadley alot have takern there own lifes they need to educate counellors today on the past and also health workers as alot of us won't go back into that inviroment when is the goverment going to have the balls fix all this they are acountable and allways will be forgottern austraian's
Posted by trevor, 2/08/2008 11:17:16 AM
i was a state ward of qld.....my 4 daughters were state wards of nsw...i joined a site for forgotten wards and found the nastiness towards each other and the spite was overwhelming.....the main members were victorians trying to get compensation......IS THERE A SITE FOR USWARDS TO JOIN,PLEASE?
Posted by qld state wards..1940, 28/01/2009 10:40:11 AM
I WOULD LIKE TO JOIN A SITE WITH OTHER QLD WARDS OF STATE,,,,PLEASE NOT FORGOTTEN AUSTRALIANS.....THANKS. TERI
Posted by qld state wards..1940, 28/01/2009 10:52:56 AM
The day is coming when people who are not Forgotten Australians who use our names as themselves when they aint one,,will feel the wrath, Yes to much abuse from the non abused Wards claiming to be what they aint,,,As a Forgotten Australian, I have witnessed plenty people portraying to be a FAs when they are so far from it,,, The time is coming,, No one will abuse the name Forgotten Australians no more,,, Action is in place to stop this happening now,,, The next few weeks will make the real Forgotten Australians very happy,, But the pretenders will not,,, Whats best for Forgotten Australian will happen. Oz wide... To much confusion,, so it will be stopped this misconception,, Forgotten Australians are Forgotten Australians not like so many claiming to be. Protection is coming for Forgotten Australians.
Posted by Sconey, 3/03/2009 9:56:54 AM
Teri you want to join wards but not the Forgotten Australians, now what wrong with the Forgotten Australians. We are real people with real facts.
Posted by Sconey, 4/03/2009 8:06:13 PM

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